Why??

This is to all the girls out there, who deal with the society, its rules, its regulations and what other crap men can’t even think of, every other day.

the words they said

it hurt, deeply.

made me feel,

I don’t belong here,

but then

where do I belong?

If not here, then where?

This isn’t for you

you could be fairer

you can be taller

you can be thinner

you can’t wear too much makeup

you can’t wear this dress

you need to learn how to cook

your strap is showing

you should eat this

you shouldn’t smoke

you can’t work

you are a child giving machine

you are meant to leave this house one day

you can’t play with boys

you should speak softly

you should sit properly

you should be like him

your hair can be longer,

eyes can be bigger

nails can be trimmed

lips can be smaller

breasts can be bigger

hips can be broader

you should be this,

all of this

but not yourself.

WHY???

we all can live, just like other men are living.

even if the bra strap is showing, we are not asking for it.

even if the clock rings 10 pm, we can work in the office.

even if we are tall/short/thick/slim/bald, we can live our life without any regulations.

even if treated like objects, we deserve to be treated equally.

and if not, then why change your mind on  “International Women’s Day”

Sending messages like –

be yourself,

be independent,

you’re one of a kind.

…

extra 20% off on pepper sprays,

extra 50% off on sanitary pads,

but, but, but…here’s the best deal

100% off on your security. we don’t care how secure you’re

in your own home, your neighborhood or  your society.

but yes, here’s a coupon code for your lingerie.

i wonder, why is it so hard

for all the people out there

to understand

one

small

thing

WE ALL ARE HUMANS, WE ALL CAN DO WHATEVER WE LIKE, WE ALL CAN WEAR WHATEVER WE WANT, AND WE CAN AN LEAD THE LIVES WE DESIRE. NO MATTER WHAT GENDER WE ARE.

i wonder, how many women have actually thought about this, instead of simply believing what the people say.